** posting pics of (ex)boy/girlfriends here is more a matter of discretion than of courage **

sure, we can argue the finer points and call it a... matter of discretion, some might label it as... a lack of common decency/morals etc or a fine example of one-up-manship on "teh internets"... blah blah blah (all of which was cloaked in wishbone made me do it, heh)

how about just plain old dumb. Nice to peel back the layers occasionally and just call it what it is. Nonetheless, the entire premise (or selected label) imo seems quite irrelevant anyways. I ask myself, would I ever do that. The answer is an unequivocal no. I'm stuck with unnamed internal characteristics that simply prevent or block it from happening, even if i had the urge. The proof, easily located resides on the pages beforehand. I posses that unnamed something Veta does not. That's good enuf for me. Besides, who in gods name would post the following..EVEN ON THE INTERNET ?...


** Btw harry I'll upload pics of my new car later I ended up going Lexus instead of Audi - definitely the right decision. **

hmmm, definitely the right decision. alrighty then, lol. lets move on...

** By now I probably don't have to explain that I can get laid with minimal effort (as I attend an American undergraduate collegiate institute) and most of the girls I am fucking are the heirs and daughters of millionaires. Yeah it fucking sucks hahahah. Going to Cancun or Acapulco every Spring Break isn't bad either. **

my lord, mother of baby jeebus. truly epic

Did you ever consider, gangstr, that it isn't something I do not possess but rather something you do not possess?

Boogy is pretty on mark about my real life personality though generally I'm amicable because that's how you get shit done for you. Call it fake or a farce, the reality is i'd rather be polite all night to a waiter and get a free round of drinks as a result than be a dick and have my food exactly as I wanted it (I have never asked a waiter to send back my food, although its never been inedible either).

Moral of the story is: you can be an asshole but if you're a smart asshole you know you catch more flies with honey. Give me a few months - or whenever I plan on making a month run again and I'll be cordial with you all.

-xxo gossip girl

At least you are honest. Some might call it shameless. But its never a good thing to be ashamed of who you are. We can't blame you for being like this. Antisocial Personality Disorder is untreatable and likely congenital.

I pity the people close to you, though. Their bad luck is unfortunate. Hopefully some of them are smart enough to figure you out before you can really hurt them.

Oddly, knowing the truth about you now, I no longer feel any animosity towards you. Just an appropriate level of suspicion, mistrust and curiosity.

My whole family behaves that way to a degree. I would say my father is the most earnest, probably because his father died in a soviet gulag when he was a kid, but still wouldnt think twice about doing something difficult, onerous or cold blooded for the good of his family. I hope I can be as good of a father frankly.

If we were to cast kdicers as different families in a game of thrones I think we can agree I've got dibs on the Lancesters, right?

Ooooh better example - my family is like the family in arrested development except there's no Michael.

Speaking of which I am stoked about the movie.

** Did you ever consider, gangstr, that it isn't something I do not possess but rather something you do not possess? **

do you mean to ask, was i too at one time also young and stupid ? (while at the same time considered intelligent and capable?) don't kid yourself.

this leaves out huge chunks of data for the sake of brevity, but consider the following. The nature of character and how it's integrated into the cortical centers is an area as human beings we are given much liberty and perhaps more opportunity to exercise control over than just about anything else. However, with that integration comes significant consequence as it applies to either virtue and on the other side of the scale, penalty. The outcomes of which no one else can be held responsible for but yours truly. It's your basket of rewards baby, period. The above suggests you have the opportunity to "plug in" or unplug certain characteristics given a persons willing to put in the effort, and it aint easy, takes work. However, what's perhaps even more critical, none of it can be achieved, developed or truly understood vicariously or in the abstract, which leaves only one other option. Given my own past, and a historical tendency to go all in at times I can tell you I created some whoppers. Subsequently today, there's a few installations I'm quite happy to not fuck with and leave in place because you just can't argue with... "what's REAL"

** Boogy is pretty on mark about my real life personality though generally I'm amicable because that's how you get shit done for you. Call it fake or a farce, the reality is i'd rather be polite all night to a waiter and get a free round of drinks as a result than be a dick and have my food exactly as I wanted it (I have never asked a waiter to send back my food, although its never been inedible either).

Moral of the story is: you can be an asshole but if you're a smart asshole you know you catch more flies with honey. Give me a few months - or whenever I plan on making a month run again and I'll be cordial with you all. **

Of this I have no doubts. However, I suggest you go back to my earlier comment, rinse, wash, and repeat. At a superficial level what you say will work and does reap results. No argument from me on that. However, what you are describing will inevitably fall flat on it's face and hit the wall every time when confronted by those who fully recognize the meaning of gut level congruency. Same message, all systems. This cannot be faked. It's virtually impossible. Subsequently I've occasionally received that free round of drinks as a gesture of recognition without having placed any effort into it whatsoever. Granted, it's a much rarer event. Nonetheless, it speaks volumes and represents a much higher intrinsic value and points to areas of integrity, which defines that which does not fall apart. Those rare events in my estimation are true gems but that's just me. I'll take that anytime as opposed to what you are illustrating.

why are all these arguments in the only thread accusing me of cheating? lol

no one accused you, you were caught and outed

Faking sincerity gets you pretty far in life gangstr, it would almost seem that you are robbing yourself of many opportunities by sticking to some sort of arbitrary principles your upbringing or parents have impressed upon you. Perhaps the difference between us is the will to do what the other wouldn't - that reminds me of a certain scene of a certain movie about a certain character named Keyser Soze.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EdeCPGNRjOU


"However, what you are describing will inevitably fall flat on it's face and hit the wall every time when confronted by those who fully recognize the meaning of gut level congruency. Same message, all systems. This cannot be faked. It's virtually impossible."

I wholeheartedly disagree. There's people that live double lives, alla dr. jekyll and mr hyde. Boardwalk Empire's Nucky Thompson is a great example of the attributes and character traits I would find highly beneficiary in society today - ones I myself would wish to emulate. Yes you can have a conscience but if you can't discern when to listen to it and when not to then I would say you are at a severe disadvantage in this life. You think the highest echelons of society were reached by people that had your mindset gangstr? Probably not. But people with the same mindset as Nukky Thompson? Indubitably.

My point is this: you can fake it until you make it - and that's just a fact of life. You are probably being lied to by people you know in your life or you might have given white lies during a conversation, ultimately perception in interpersonal relationships IS reality. How you are perceived by others ultimately reflects your relationship - regardless of whether it's "true" or not, other people's perception becomes reality. Barring you actually thinking someone else's thoughts there is no way around this.

As Jean Giraudoux said, "The secret of success is sincerity. Once you can fake that you've got it made."

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