Sorry if people are talking and if it is not true what ever they are saying about you. But, you do know that anyone can go and see all the posts that are written on our wall's and they can use that information however they like and I do not control that. I try to treat everyone fairly and I am in a relationship with someone and I just am on the site to laugh a little while playing poker. And it is nice to meet a fellow BC er. So take care of yourself and ignore the rest.